Mindset, self-development

Why Are You Wasting Time and Energy  Dealing With The Same Problems Again and Again? Break The Cycle With this Essential Problem Solving Strategy!

Are you struggling with the same recurring problems in your life?

Tired of wasting time, coming back to the same issue again and again…?

Are you the type of person who deals with issues as they come up?

You like bandaid solutions. You put out fires with a quick fix. And you continue on with your day.

The thing is, you can’t bandage a wound that needs stitches…

Eventually, the issue comes back.

You end up wasting more time and more energy on the same task.

Over and over again…

Quick fixes end up being more time consuming.

Is this really the best use of your time?

Well, what if I told you that you can solve a problem once,
Without the chance of it reoccurring?

It’s possible if we can understand the value and adopt the concept of…

“Upstream.”

You might be wondering… “Does it involve swimming…? Because I am not a fish…”

It’s nothing like that at all!

So What Is Upstreaming?

Upstreaming is a concept I learned about in the book ‘Upstream: The Quest to Solving Problems Before They Happen’ by Dan Health.

The author, Mr. Health, explains how we, as humans, have become reactive to problems that come up in our lives. We often get stuck in this cycle of response.

Problem comes up… We respond.

Problem comes up a second time… We respond again.

What we don’t normally do is think about how we can prevent that problem from taking place again.

Look For Patterns

It’s up to us to analyze these patterns of problems in our own lives. As small or big as they may be.

It doesn’t matter the size of the problem. What matters is that you become aware of the problem…

Once you are aware, you can ask yourself this essential question:

“How can I upstream this?”

Or, “What can I do to prevent this problem from returning?”

This question makes all the difference.

You go from responding to problems…

… To preventing them!

Which means you’ll gain back time to focus your energy on other areas of your life!

Don’t waste time and energy solving the same issue time and time again..

Think ‘Upstream!’

With love,

Miss T.


Education, Kids, Mindfulness, Mindset, self-development

Tim Ferriss or Eckhart Tolle? How About Neither! Why Picture Books Are The Best Form of Self-Education.

Self-Education – My favourite kind of education!

If you’re like me, you turn to a good book when you’re looking for answers.

We reach for the newest Self-Development, Spirituality, Finance or Business book on the shelf. Then, down it like a glass of ice-cold water on a hot day.

Books like:

  • The 4-Hour Work Week by Tim Ferriss
  • Daring Greatly by Dr. Brene Brown
  • The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
  • Or the classic: Think and Grow Rich by Napolean Hill

I’ve read all of these books.

I learned something from each of them.

But let me tell you, none of these books were as impactful as the children’s picture books I’ve read…

Picture Books For Adults.

While picture books are written to entertain children, I am convinced that they are actually designed for adults.

The lessons to be learned in a good picture book are just as important for us to digest.

Why?

The thing is, adults get corrupted by life. We get lost along the way.

We have busy lives, stressful jobs, and needy families.

The magic of simplicity and childhood gets tossed aside.

Forgotten.

We only have time to focus on the “grown up” stuff.

We forget to nourish our inner-child.

Picture Books Pack a Punch.

All it takes is a 5 minute picture book to get whacked in the face with a heart-warming lesson. It hits us right in the feels

We learn about life. We learn about ourselves.

They make us think:

“Oh right… that IS important… I should value that more…I should make more time for that…”

They bring us back to our inner-child.

Our Brains Love Stories.

A human’s brain is wired to digest and break down stories.

We analyze them and search for the meaning behind them.

Kids’ brains do this. Adults’ brains do too.

Think about it…

The hieroglyphics in Ancient Egypt…

… Drawn-out stories!

The tales from Indigenous groups…

… More stories!

Classic moral-inducing fables…

…. All stories!

Stories Are Human Nature.

It’s how we make sense of the world.

So, the next time you’re reaching for the newest self-development or non-fiction book… I challenge you instead… to grab a picture book!

You never know what lessons you’ll find…

Or what lesson will find you!

With love,

Miss T.


Mindful Miss T’s Recommendation of the Day!

Maybe

By Kobi Yamada

A BEAUTIFUL picture book (That I am convinced is written for adults too!) about the endless potential in us all.

I received this book as a birthday gift last week and it reminded me of my purpose and reason for being here on this Earth. It reminded me that everyone has their own purpose. That everyone is here for a reason. Whatever that reason may be. And it is up to us to share our purpose with those around us. That WE are capable of anything.